Strategi Dialektika Relasional Pasangan Suami Isteri di Masa Pandemi Covid-19

This research was conducted to determine the relational dialectics strategy of married couples facing the Covid-19 pandemic.
There were two couples as interviewees, the first spouse experienced work from home (WFH). The second one whose husband
has worked from office (WFO). This research uses a qualitative approach with a case study method. Based on the findings of
the data obtained, it shows that the WFH pair is more directed at autonomy, stability and closedness, while the WFO pair
refers to connection, change and openness. From the research conducted, researchers can find five things that can cause
dialectical tension for couples during a pandemic. First, the closeness of the partner depends on the age and character of the
child. Second, work determines the interaction of partners during a pandemic. Third, family backgrounds shape relationships
in the family. Fourth, character and personal preferences shape responses in relationships. Finally, adaptations and
communication alternatives facing the pandemic. Then the strategies that are mostly used by both partners are segmentation
and integration. It is also seen how communication is an important (key) in forming an agreement by adjusting between
partners.